Girls who don't have an little edginess in their personality are boring and unattractive. Girls who have the edginess tend to cheat on me. If I have to choose, I'd go with the cheater unfortunately. Maybe I just have to learn to deal, or just be a cheater myself. I don't know. This is the first girl to ever tell me she cheated on her own without being caught and beg me to stay. Should that count for something? I do still like her, I just hate what she did. She has been trying to make it up to me in someways. Random blowjobs in the car while I'm driving. Cookies she makes. Little notes she leaves listing the things she likes about me or apologies tearing herself apart about how she screwed up. If she is playing me, I kind of like the game.
You guys aren't married, and if you never promised to be exclusive, I don't see a problem with taking her back. On the other hand, if it was supposed to be a committed relationship, I'm not sure how you could ever trust her again. It really depends on the circumstances surrounding the relationship. And I've got to say, any girl who gives road head is a probably a keeper.
I assume he wouldn't be so emo if it was some fuck buddy. The fact that he gives a shit means he thought it was a committed relationship... I'm just not a trusting person, and I don't see how you could ever trust this chick again.
Maybe he never made it clear to her that it was committed relationship. She could have thought it was just a fuck buddy situation.
with that logic if he 'forgives her' she'll just thing he'll forgive her again if she bakes him enough cookies after she cheats the second time! Never trust a girlfriend who bakes you cookies for no reason. But really, I'd say it's up to you. There is no concensus here with us, I'd look into her passed, talk to her friends, enemys... of course first talk to HER and find out what her take is. Had she ever done this before? Was she drunk or on drugs? Does she know this guy or still know him? (assuming it's a guy... if it's a girl go with monkey's advice and get the threesome!!) optional: what kind of girl is this? what does she do in her free time? As a way to test her dedication, how did she do in schoo? IS SHE STILL IN SCHOOL?? Pedophile :x lol j/k but yeah ppl's tendancies only get stronger as they age. If she cheated in school she'll cheat on you. If she complained alot she'll bitch you out all day... nevermind that part. Than go talk to her mother. Considering she didn't already eat her.
We were committed. But there were a ton of details that make me think this won't happen again. Unless she is a SUPER compulsive liar, and I don't realize it yet. I'm proceeding with caution. I'm also completely untrusting of her. It's such a weird concept to me, that I can still have strong feelings for her but be completely suspicious of her. That being said, I'm testing her honesty. Hindsight is 20/20, and looking back, she slipped up minor indicators that she was cheating, I don't even think she realizes it. They are just little things that I remember but didn't really connect the dots at the time. Little contradictions and stuff like that. So I'm watching what she says closely. Looking for holes so I can interrogate. So far so good. She only has one more semester. So if things stay good, and if she stays committed WITHOUT me officially saying I'm committed, then it will work out. Meanwhile, I'm not opposed to the idea of moving on if someone better comes along. I don't think I can find someone better though. I can find someone I like who will never cheat at all, but this girl would always be that one that got away. And I don't like regrets.
If you still like her then stick with her. Just make sure she makes it up to you for while as compensation.
Dude, does she have a small tattoo on the back of her shoulder and enjoy going to clubs that play nothing but SeIJmciN8mo[/media]
Wait, what? You're all over the road. I think you should just tell her you'd like it to be exclusive and see what happens. You don't really have anything to lose, other than what appears to be a double-standard.
The song itself may be a double decker shit sandwich with lettuce and tomato, but Nicki Minaj has one of the hottest asses I've ever seen. That video is great if you just mute the sound. Also, I think you just perfectly described what your average airhead chick thinks is being "edgy."